relationship..??
Sometimes I wonder:
What does relationship really means and how does it really work?
Are we in the relationship because we like our partner's characteristics and personality? Or are we in a relationship because we are able to come to terms with out partner's not-so-pleasant characteristics and personality and can actually love them for being whoever they are?
I've seen a couple of cases where they are just smitten with their partner for the first couple of months (or years in some cases). But when things are going the other direction, they started to act like a complete ass and just treat their partner with total disrespect? When that happens, I just smiled and thought to myself. What happens to the old saying 'every problems has its own way out'? I believe that if they stayed long enough to actually solve the problem together, instead of just quitting and leave, they would've made it (remembering at how they used to adore each other).
On the contrary, I've also seen cases where they just grow to love the person even more, together with their hard-earned understanding towards their partner. Understanding their partner's unbearable bad ol' habit and not trying to change or discourage their habit at all!! And when bad things happen to the relationship, they can actually look back at how they used to love each other so much and treasure it enough to believe that there's something in the relationship that worth all the effort and patience.
To be honest, I used to be the girl who complain a lot.. about every little thing. But through time, I learn that those habit that used to pissed you off so bad can actually make you miss them when you loose it. And at some point, you just wished so hard that you could actually experience it again.
What does relationship really means and how does it really work?
Are we in the relationship because we like our partner's characteristics and personality? Or are we in a relationship because we are able to come to terms with out partner's not-so-pleasant characteristics and personality and can actually love them for being whoever they are?
I've seen a couple of cases where they are just smitten with their partner for the first couple of months (or years in some cases). But when things are going the other direction, they started to act like a complete ass and just treat their partner with total disrespect? When that happens, I just smiled and thought to myself. What happens to the old saying 'every problems has its own way out'? I believe that if they stayed long enough to actually solve the problem together, instead of just quitting and leave, they would've made it (remembering at how they used to adore each other).
On the contrary, I've also seen cases where they just grow to love the person even more, together with their hard-earned understanding towards their partner. Understanding their partner's unbearable bad ol' habit and not trying to change or discourage their habit at all!! And when bad things happen to the relationship, they can actually look back at how they used to love each other so much and treasure it enough to believe that there's something in the relationship that worth all the effort and patience.
To be honest, I used to be the girl who complain a lot.. about every little thing. But through time, I learn that those habit that used to pissed you off so bad can actually make you miss them when you loose it. And at some point, you just wished so hard that you could actually experience it again.
8 Comments:
I didn't toldja last nite over the msn, that i'm the second type of person. Hohoho. Well, sometimes, we call this type of people, a bunch of fools ^^.
im one of em. >.<
But then, if it didn't happen, then you wouldn't realize this, right?
pop: not really pop.. i think the first type was the fool. hehehe
rin: yeah u're rite.. definitely a hard-earned lesson. :))
Jadi ingat lagu keren....
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For awhile, to love was all we could do
We were young and we knew
In our eyes were alive
Deep inside we knew our love was true
For awhile, we paid no mind to the past
We knew love would last
Every night, something right
Would invite us to begin the day
Something happened along the way
What used to be happy was sad
Something happened along the way
And yesterday was all we had
And, oh, after the love has gone
How could you lead me on
And not let me stay around ?
Oh, oh, oh, after the love has gone
What used to be right is wrong
Can love that’s lost be found ?
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hayoo...siapa coba yang nyanyiin? katanya loe penggemar jazz kan? :)
After The Love Has Gone by Earth Wind & Fire
;)
Maybe that why it's called a relation-ship. Like a ship, in order to operate smoothly, the engine must be in top condition, the ship itself must be clean and strong. The captain must be well experienced, has charisma, and knows how to be a good commander. His shipmates must also be adept and loyal to his captain. So, that ship works like a smooth system. Am I right or am I just rambling nonsense? Hahahahaha!!!
can't quiet tell honey.. because i don't think I understand what you're talking about.. so probably yes.. u're rambling nonsense.. hahahaha
updeett dong...
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