The after-the-breakup-meeting.
What is it with guys and their 'plin-plan'-ness?!?!?!?
I notice that when a guy break off a relationship and somehow after a certain period of time, they would suddenly ask the ex-girlfriend out again. For whatever reason that might be, the standard one was 'I just wanna see you and see how u're doin'. AND.. usually being the girl who's still not over him yet we're just thrilled by the invitation and followed by a 'yes' to the meeting.
And not only that.. when they finally met, the guy would act and pretend as if nothing has happened.. he'd still try to hug and kiss and hold hands .. just like the old times, like the break-up has never happened.
I mean.. come on guys.. stand on your ground.. u've made your decision. Stay with it!! Don't be giving mixed signals.. our heart is at risk heree! One minute, u'd be saying u're out of love or scared for whatever reason that might be.. the next minute u're saying u miss us and u can't let go of us.. During the recovery period, u're gone enjoying your newfound freedom, while we're just staying put trying so hard to wake up in the morning and live our life. When we're almost alright, you came back right in and put us back in square one. To put it easier, you only know how to screw it up, then u'll leave a mess for us to clean, when its almost clean, you came right back to screw it up again.
We're not a freakin teddybear where you can hug when u want too and throw when u're bored. Goddamit!!
I notice that when a guy break off a relationship and somehow after a certain period of time, they would suddenly ask the ex-girlfriend out again. For whatever reason that might be, the standard one was 'I just wanna see you and see how u're doin'. AND.. usually being the girl who's still not over him yet we're just thrilled by the invitation and followed by a 'yes' to the meeting.
And not only that.. when they finally met, the guy would act and pretend as if nothing has happened.. he'd still try to hug and kiss and hold hands .. just like the old times, like the break-up has never happened.
I mean.. come on guys.. stand on your ground.. u've made your decision. Stay with it!! Don't be giving mixed signals.. our heart is at risk heree! One minute, u'd be saying u're out of love or scared for whatever reason that might be.. the next minute u're saying u miss us and u can't let go of us.. During the recovery period, u're gone enjoying your newfound freedom, while we're just staying put trying so hard to wake up in the morning and live our life. When we're almost alright, you came back right in and put us back in square one. To put it easier, you only know how to screw it up, then u'll leave a mess for us to clean, when its almost clean, you came right back to screw it up again.
We're not a freakin teddybear where you can hug when u want too and throw when u're bored. Goddamit!!
4 Comments:
my boyfriend is plin-plan. Nuff said :P
it's shit. but prob the only reason that gals don't do this is pride. guys have less pride?
therry: i'll let you be the judge of that dear..
irine: i think guys have pride too.. they're just plain selfish!!
I met up with my guy friend today and he said a girl had done the same thing to him. Maybe it's not so much of a guy's thing but it's more like being an opportunists or totally cocky. Nevertheless, it's ok for guys to ask a girl to come back to him because that makes him get the "Aww...isn't he adorable, swallowing his pride and confessing to her that he's made a huge mistake" kind of praise. But if a girl does it, then she's just plain pathetic. Totally unfuckinfair but that's how the society thinks.
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